When you intervene as an empowered bystander you can help to create change through reinforcing positive values and behaviours. Importantly you can also give support to those who are experiencing the behaviour that has the potential to cause harm. You can:
Anyone can become an empowered bystander! Acting as an empowered bystander doesn’t have to mean intervening directly or at the time you witness unacceptable behaviour from others. There are different ways in which you can act as an empowered bystander and it is often possible to make safe, unthreatening interventions, that don’t compromise personal safety.
To become an empowered bystander in any situation you must firstly become aware of a problem and recognise the negative impact it is having on someone.You not only need to recognise the situation as having the potential to cause harm, but you need to recognise your own barriers that may prevent intervention. For example, is the situation you are witnessing somewhat ambiguous? Are you sure there is potential for harm? Are other people intervening? Is it your place to intervene? Do you feel confident and skilled enough to intervene?
Remember:
Before intervening, it is crucial that you risk assess the situation to intervene safely. Consider if you can intervene in a safe way, whether you can do so in a group and how you may be able to care for the victim. Intervening from a distance and with others is the safest option. If you are intervening close up and on your own, you should consider whether this will affect your personal safety. You should never put yourself at risk.
When it comes to intervening there are different techniques you can choose from. These techniques are valid forms of intervention, and your risk assessment of the situation can help you to make a more informed decision on which intervention technique is most appropriate at any given time.
Remember the four Ds – direct, distract, delegate, delay.
You can step in, in a respectful manner, and challenge potentially harmful behaviour when you witness it.
You can create a diversion to interrupt the situation.
You can alert or contact someone with more authority or specialist knowledge to take action
You should not act immediately if this will put you in potential danger. But remember, it is never too late to act. Talk to the person affected after the situation has passed to ask them if they are OK. Or report the incident when it’s safe to do so.